Arboretum Cohousing

Because including kids shouldn’t mean losing everyone else.

Last summer, a friend invited my husband, our two kids, and our nephew — ages 6, 8, and 9 at the time — to the opening of Upstate Art Weekend, a sprawling outdoor art festival. The air was buzzing: artists welcoming strangers into their studios, dancers warming up under trees, friends reuniting in pop‑up galleries. It was the kind of setting that usually screams “no kids”: unspoken adult rules, fragile pieces on pedestals, long conversations. And yet, there we were with three kids in tow.

We’ve been told that Americans don’t party anymore. And in the rare cases we do, it’s often siloed into micro-generations: parents with parents, singles with singles, kids with kids. Intergenerational gatherings feel increasingly rare and with good reason: parenting is more intensive, childcare networks are thinner and privatized, families live farther apart, and, post-COVID, home can feel safer than venturing out. Then comes the practical side: Will the kids eat what’s served? Will they vanish into screens? Will they be a royal pain in the butt? 😬

I’ve noticed that when the kids are present at our gatherings, we tend to oscillate between two extremes — designing the event entirely around them or ignoring them altogether.

We’ve been holding a question live in our own family: Can you meaningfully involve kids without centering them at an intergenerational gathering?

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Danish communal housing is building a better society. What can it teach us?

A ping-pong ball strikes me plumb on the forehead. No one else seems to notice, so I continue eating my fiskefrikadeller (fish cake) while the residents of Grønne Eng explain the benefits of communal living. “You can always find someone to look after your kids,” says Lene Skytte Hvid, mother of Niels, seven, and Bjørn, four, who are currently mucking around at the table-tennis table nearby and are my prime suspects for the ping-pong ball. “One of the main attractions for me was that my son would grow up with other kids his age to play with,” adds Anne-Sofie Helms, a digital journalist, and mother of six-year-old Louie.

A bearded older gentleman sitting opposite me at our long table introduces himself. Niels Kryger, 77, is a retired educational anthropologist. “The noise level can be a challenge,” he shouts, as I pass him the fish cakes. “But it’s young life, so…” He tells me Grønne Eng has far exceeded his expectations. “A good atmosphere. Good people.”

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A few years ago a group working with the New Hope Resource Center in Colbert, about 7 miles north of the North Division Y, started studying housing insecurity in north Spokane County.

This housing and homelessness task force of sorts looked at the pressures on affordable housing in the northern part of the county. Most of New Hope’s clients were living in manufactured homes, which make up most of the affordable housing stock there. As pandemic eviction restrictions ended, many residents in those communities started to see doubled or tripled “lot rent” from the landlords who own the land their homes sit on.

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In my social circles, becoming a parent is seen as a gigantic sacrifice. You lose sleep, time with friends, time for hobbies. You’ll probably have to move to a less desirable neighborhood to afford the extra space for your kid. If you’re the one carrying the child, you’re ‘destroying’ your body and jeopardizing your professional goals.

But what if it didn’t have to be this way?

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Come see Heartwood Commons and all it has to offer. You’ll tour our  community of 36 individually owned, energy efficient homes and our Common House. You’ll learn about the comfortable, connected, active and engaged lifestyle Heartwood Commons offers. You’ll meet some of our owner/residents and see the 4 remaining homes we have for sale. And, we’ll answer all your questions about this amazing community that was designed to create connections and support healthy aging in place. 

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I’ve been telling this one story a lot in my talks, but realize I never shared it right here at home. If you’ve heard it, cool – here’s an easy way to share it with those who you think might benefit or get a kick out of it. And if you haven’t, well, it’s become core to my approach to life, politics, activism, economics, and taking this world back from the systems devised to disconnect us from one another, and reality itself.

Let’s do it as a thought experiment – change the names so we can protect the innocent.

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As the government continues to pursue ambitious housebuilding targets, could a recently finished development in Dorset be a template for sustainable housing elsewhere in the UK?

The 53-home Hazelmead scheme in Bridport – next to the hospital – is the biggest co-housing scheme in the UK.

Remarkably, It has taken locals 17 years from inception to completion.

But now it is fully occupied, it is receiving an impressive list of accolades – the latest being the overall Housing Design Award on Thursday.

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Homeownership can be stressful. Buying and managing a vacation property, perhaps even more so. Beyond the time and resources necessary to finance and maintain a second home, there’s the constant pressure to spend enough time there to justify the investment. But one Bay Area friend group seems to have solved these issues in one fell swoop by purchasing a vacation home together in Central California.

“We thought it would be super special to share a space and take on the joint burden, financial and logistical, of a second home together,” says Phil Levin, who purchased an 11-acre property in Big Sur with 15 of his friends through an LLC. Throughout the year, the group, along with their kids, pets, and guests, cycle in and out of the lot’s three dwellings—a three-bed home, two-bed cottage, and artist’s studio—coordinated with a shared Google Calendar.

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Construction of a 58-unit co-housing project is underway in Montreal. The building will be a mix of units, including 16 condos and 42 affordable non-market rentals.

The federal government and the Quebec government, together with the Fonds de solidarité FTQ, the City of Montréal and Village Urbain announced the $29 million residence will have at its core the Maison commune and will include nearly 10,000 square feet of shared spaces (indoor and outdoor) imagined during participatory design workshops.

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From co-housing projects to climate-positive districts, the city is leading the way in affordable, eco-friendly living

Sustainability sells. Nearly two-thirds of UK buyers say they are keen to purchase a sustainable home, with lower energy bills the biggest attraction, according to a recent survey by volume housebuilder Redrow.

But there’s a lot more to sustainable living than cheaper bills, says Paul Chatterton. Chatterton, 52, a professor of urban futures at the University of Leeds, is a founding member of pioneering Leeds co-housing co-operative Lilac (it stands for Low Impact Living Affordable Community), which put the city on the sustainable housing map more than a decade ago.

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